My Mommy heart just hurts right now....Becca is having such a hard time without Tori here. I thought they were doing okay, they were upbeat and seemed to understand...but the past couple of days, Becca has had 2 meltdowns, sobbing "I miss TTTOOORRRRIIII".....I can't stand it!! I don't know what to do...I hold her, I kiss her head, rub her back, tell her it's okay, we'll get through this, but is this enough?
When will she be ok? When will we get through this?
I remember when things first started with the county...they approached everything with "How can we be a support for you guys"....well, let me think..hmmm...by not ripping our family apart? That would be a start!!
I digress.
It will be okay..... I'll get through this.
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My heart hurts with you all. You are so in tune to your girls emotionally that maybe what I have to say is basic to you. It took me many years of living and hurting to know that we can not escape life's pain. Don't try to "fix" Becca's hurt. Just let her feel it and express it. She is very expressive; maybe journaling or drawing might help her to work through it. But most of all, take her to the Lord and His word to give voice to the feelings and to find lasting comfort.
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